Saturday, November 16, 2019

Genesis 34-35:15


    Timeline Update
    2236
    Birth of Terah
    Gen 11:24
    2166
    Birth of Abram
    Gen 11:27
    2091
    Abram departs from Haran
    Gen 12:4
    2066
    Birth of lsaac
    Gen 21:2; cf.21:5
    2006
    Birth of Jacob and Esau
    Gen. 25:26
    1966
    Marriage of Esau
    Gen 26:34
    1930
    Jacob journeys to Haran (after 1966 but not sure how much; Isaac' eyes are very bad)
    Gen 28:2
    1916
    End of Jacob's 14 year labor for his wives
    Gen 29:30
    1916
    Birth of Joseph
    Gen 30:23
    1910
    End of Jacob's stay with Laban
    Gen 31:41
    1910
    Jacob's arrival at Shechem
    Gen 33:18
    1902
    Rape of Dinah
    Gen 34:1-2

    Review

    Gen 34:1-31 (ESV) Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out to see the women of the land. 2 And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, the prince of the land, saw her, he seized her and lay with her and humiliated her. 3 And his soul was drawn to Dinah the daughter of Jacob. He loved the young woman and spoke tenderly to her. 4 So Shechem spoke to his father Hamor, saying, "Get me this girl for my wife."

    5 Now Jacob heard that he had defiled his daughter Dinah. But his sons were with his livestock in the field, so Jacob held his peace until they came. 6 And Hamor the father of Shechem went out to Jacob to speak with him. 7 The sons of Jacob had come in from the field as soon as they heard of it, and the men were indignant and very angry, because he had done an outrageous thing in Israel by lying with Jacob's daughter, for such a thing must not be done.

    8 But Hamor spoke with them, saying, "The soul of my son Shechem longs for your daughter. Please give her to him to be his wife. 9 Make marriages with us. Give your daughters to us, and take our daughters for yourselves. 10 You shall dwell with us, and the land shall be open to you. Dwell and trade in it, and get property in it." 11 Shechem also said to her father and to her brothers, "Let me find favor in your eyes, and whatever you say to me I will give. 12 Ask me for as great a bride price and gift as you will, and I will give whatever you say to me. Only give me the young woman to be my wife."

    13 The sons of Jacob answered Shechem and his father Hamor deceitfully, because he had defiled their sister Dinah. 14 They said to them, "We cannot do this thing, to give our sister to one who is uncircumcised, for that would be a disgrace to us. 15 Only on this condition will we agree with you—that you will become as we are by every male among you being circumcised. 16 Then we will give our daughters to you, and we will take your daughters to ourselves, and we will dwell with you and become one people. 17 But if you will not listen to us and be circumcised, then we will take our daughter, and we will be gone."

    18 Their words pleased Hamor and Hamor's son Shechem. 19 And the young man did not delay to do the thing, because he delighted in Jacob's daughter. Now he was the most honored of all his father's house. 20 So Hamor and his son Shechem came to the gate of their city and spoke to the men of their city, saying, 21 "These men are at peace with us; let them dwell in the land and trade in it, for behold, the land is large enough for them. Let us take their daughters as wives, and let us give them our daughters. 22 Only on this condition will the men agree to dwell with us to become one people—when every male among us is circumcised as they are circumcised. 23 Will not their livestock, their property and all their beasts be ours? Only let us agree with them, and they will dwell with us." 24 And all who went out of the gate of his city listened to Hamor and his son Shechem, and every male was circumcised, all who went out of the gate of his city.

    25 On the third day, when they were sore, two of the sons of Jacob, Simeon and Levi, Dinah's brothers, took their swords and came against the city while it felt secure and killed all the males. 26 They killed Hamor and his son Shechem with the sword and took Dinah out of Shechem's house and went away. 27 The sons of Jacob came upon the slain and plundered the city, because they had defiled their sister. 28 They took their flocks and their herds, their donkeys, and whatever was in the city and in the field. 29 All their wealth, all their little ones and their wives, all that was in the houses, they captured and plundered.

    30 Then Jacob said to Simeon and Levi, "You have brought trouble on me by making me stink to the inhabitants of the land, the Canaanites and the Perizzites. My numbers are few, and if they gather themselves against me and attack me, I shall be destroyed, both I and my household." 31 But they said, "Should he treat our sister like a prostitute?"

    • We don't know all the details concerning this situation
    • How does Jacob respond initially?
      • He doesn't say anything. He specifically holds his peace
      • He is passive
      • This was very typical response of Jacob at this point in his life
    • Is Jacob's lack of a response right or wrong?
      • Wrong: He shows no leadership. This is his old nature winning the battle. He has struggled with fear in his life and He could be afraid
    OR …
    • Right: He could be trying to trust God without taking matters into his own hands
    • What do you think Jacob should have done?
      • He should have exercised leadership in the family by at least saying something or by trying to control his own children
      • There is probably little he could do to the ruler's son, although he could have tried
      • Was it right that the whole town should be killed?
        • No. We know that is God's judgment because later it is given for one of the reasons that Simeon (2) and Levi (3) are passed over for the line of the Messiah
        • Later on, God will exercise judgment against the Hivites, but not yet
    • Why do Simeon and Levi (specifically) take action?
      • Leah was the mother of Dinah and the mother of the first four sons
    • What is it regarding Simeon and Levi's actions that are noteworthy (or ironic)?
      • It is the same disease that affected Jacob, deception
      • It is also interesting, that God is still using Jacob's old name to tell the story. There still has not been a switch
    • It is important to note that other brothers took part in the looting
    • What is Jacob's fear at the end of the incident?
      • They will be destroyed
      • Maybe if he had shared this at the beginning we could have avoided some of the trouble
      • Sin always has consequences
        • Jacob had deceived others in the past
        • It isn't surprising that his children also deceive others (although our sin nature alone makes all of us susceptible, independent of actions by our parents)
      • Jacob doesn't correct them for breach of contract, murder, or looting--only for bringing other's ill will against him
    • Does any good come out of this situation?
      • Rom 12:28 says that God works for good in every situation
      • God does use the occasion for good in the life of Jacob's family (next section)
    • APPLICATION:  Men, we need to be careful about passivity.  Sometimes we make decisions slowly and that can be very good, but sometimes we put off decisions because we don't want to make them.  We need to approach these situations in prayer and ask God for wisdom to know when and how to react
    • APPLICATION: One of the purposes of the chapter is to explain why Levi and Simeon are passed over for the line of the Messiah. Soon we will find why Reuben is passed over too
    • APPLICATION: It also shows the need for regular purification. They need to refocus
    • APPLICATION: … the story nevertheless also carries along the theme that runs so clearly through the Jacob narratives, namely, that God works through and often in spite of the limited self-serving plans of human beings. The writer’s purpose is not to approve these human plans and schemes but to show how God, in his sovereign grace, could still achieve his purpose through them.” (Sailhammer).

    Gen 35:1-4 (NIV) God said to Jacob, "Arise, go up to Bethel and dwell there. Make an altar there to the God who appeared to you when you fled from your brother Esau." 2 So Jacob said to his household and to all who were with him, "Put away the foreign gods that are among you and purify yourselves and change your garments. 3 Then let us arise and go up to Bethel, so that I may make there an altar to the God who answers me in the day of my distress and has been with me wherever I have gone." 4 So they gave to Jacob all the foreign gods that they had, and the rings that were in their ears. Jacob hid them under the terebinth tree that was near Shechem.

    • How does God use the Shechem incident to bring about good?
      • He moves them to Bethel (Bethel is where he made his vow)
        • Gen 28:19-22 (NIV) 19 He called that place Bethel,c though the city used to be called Luz.
    20 Then Jacob made a vow, saying, “If God will be with me and will watch over me on this journey I am taking and will give me food to eat and clothes to wear 21 so that I return safely to my father’s house, then the Lordd will be my God 22 ande this stone that I have set up as a pillar will be God’s house, and of all that you give me I will give you a tenth.”
    c Bethel means house of God.
    d 20,21 Or Since God... father~s house, the LORD
    e 21,22 Or house, and the LORD will be my God, then
    • Actually, Jacob had never fulfilled the vow by making the pillar, God's house or of sacrificing the tenth that he had promised
    • He purifies them (they got rid of foreign gods).  Why would this be an issue?
      • Rachel's theft
      • Loot from the sacking of Shechem
    • He cleanses them.  Changing clothes is symbolic
    • Does he hide them or bury them? Why not melt / burn them?
    • APPLICATION: Sometimes God uses difficult circumstances to bring us back to Him
    • APPLICATION: Fear sometimes drive us back to God

    Gen 35:5-8 (ESV) And as they journeyed, a terror from God fell upon the cities that were around them, so that they did not pursue the sons of Jacob. 6 And Jacob came to Luz (that is, Bethel), which is in the land of Canaan, he and all the people who were with him, 7 and there he built an altar and called the place El-bethel, because there God had revealed himself to him when he fled from his brother. 8 And Deborah, Rebekah's nurse, died, and she was buried under an oak below Bethel. So he called its name Allon-bacuth.

    • How does coming to Bethel fulfill the vow?
      • Because he builds an altar
      • We assume he fulfilled his vow of sacrifice as well
    • The place is renamed a third time, from Luz to Bethel (House of God), to El Bethel (God of Bethel).  What is the significance? 
      • The names remind the person of the event
      • At first it was the place where God spoke
      • The second time, Jacob now knows the person who had spoke
    • Was Jacob's fear of his neighbors justified?
      • YES: because apparently they had considering pursuing him
      • NO: God protected them ("a terror from God")
    • APPLICATION:  Is there something that we have promised to do for God, but we have been slack to follow through on?

    Gen 35:9-15 (ESV) God appeared to Jacob again, when he came from Paddan-aram, and blessed him. 10 And God said to him, "Your name is Jacob; no longer shall your name be called Jacob, but Israel shall be your name." So he called his name Israel. 11 And God said to him, "I am God Almighty: be fruitful and multiply. A nation and a company of nations shall come from you, and kings shall come from your own body.  12  The land that I gave to Abraham and Isaac I will give to you, and I will give the land to your offspring after you." 13 Then God went up from him in the place where he had spoken with him. 14 And Jacob set up a pillar in the place where he had spoken with him, a pillar of stone. He poured out a drink offering on it and poured oil on it. 15 So Jacob called the name of the place where God had spoken with him Bethel.
    c That is, Northwest Mesopotamia; also in verse 26
    d Jacob means he grasps the heel (figuratively, he deceives).
    e Israel means he struggles with God.
    f Hebrew El-Shaddai
    g Bethel means house of God.

    • Why does God repeat the renaming of Jacob to Israel?
      • It reconfirms the name change
      • It places it in more positive connotation vs the negative connotation of the last encounter
      • He attaches the new name to a reaffirmation of the covenant
    • Why does Jacob rename the place again (vs 15)?
      • God names himself "El Shaddai" in verse 11
      • Jacob renames it again back to Bethel, probably because God speaks to him, and also because God names himself
    • APPLICATION:  We all need reaffirmation of our faith.  Unfortunately, and maybe fortunately, God doesn't appear to us like He did to the Patriarchs.  God speaks through the Holy Spirit and the Word of God.  If we are not in the word on a regular basis, we miss out on the reaffirmation of God

Genesis 32-33


    Timeline:
    2236
    Birth of Terah
    Gen 11:24

    2166
    Birth of Abram
    Gen 11:27

    2091
    Abram departs from Haran
    Gen 12:4

    2066
    Birth of lsaac
    Gen 21:2; cf.21:5

    2006
    Birth of Jacob and Esau
    Gen. 25:26
    Jacob's Age
    1966
    Marriage of Esau
    Gen 26:34
    36
    1930
    Jacob journeys to Haran (after 1966 but not sure how much; Isaac' eyes are very bad)
    Gen 28:2
    76
    1916
    End of Jacob's 14 year labor for his wives
    Gen 29:30
    90
    1916
    Birth of Joseph
    Gen 30:23
    90
    1910
    End of Jacob's stay with Laban
    Gen 31:41
    96
    1886
    Death of lsaac
    Gen 35:28


    Gen 32:1-8 (ESV) Jacob went on his way, and the angels of God met him. 2 And when Jacob saw them he said, "This is God's camp!" So he called the name of that place Mahanaim.

    3 And Jacob sent messengers before him to Esau his brother in the land of Seir, the country of Edom, 4 instructing them, "Thus you shall say to my lord Esau: Thus says your servant Jacob, 'I have sojourned with Laban and stayed until now. 5 I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male servants, and female servants. I have sent to tell my lord, in order that I may find favor in your sight.'"

    6 And the messengers returned to Jacob, saying, "We came to your brother Esau, and he is coming to meet you, and there are four hundred men with him." 7 Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed. He divided the people who were with him, and the flocks and herds and camels, into two camps, 8 thinking, "If Esau comes to the one camp and attacks it, then the camp that is left will escape."
    a Mahanaim means two camps.
    b Or camps; vs 7, also in verse 10
    c Or camp
    d Or camp

    • What is the signficance of Mahanaim?
      • (It doesn't say) When he left the land, Jacob had seen angels, and now when he arrives back, Jacob sees angels
      • Additionally, this is the edge of the land of Israel. Angels are encamped around the border of the promised land
      • Two camps
        • God's camp and Isaac's camp, vs 1-2
        • Spiritual and a physical camp, vs 1-2 (meaning of Mahanaim: double host or double camp)
        • His group is divided into groups, vs 7
        • Thankfulness for two groups, vs 10
      • Theme of messengers (what is the message? To Jacob?)
        • Angels are messengers to Jacob
          • ?Reminder of protection?
        • Jacob sends messengers to Esau
    • Why does Jacob send the original messengers to Esau?
      • "To find favor in his eyes" is the message
      • (It doesn't say exactly) He could be telling Esau that he will not be a burden
      • It could be that he is facing his past and his sins head on
    • Why does Esau come with 400 men?
      • Gen 27:40 (NIV) 40 You will live by the sword
    and you will serve your brother.
    But when you grow restless,
    you will throw his yoke
    from off your neck.
    • Esau was a hunter, and Esau lived by conquering others
    • The news put Jacob in great distress, what does he do and why?
      1. He divides his family and possessions into two groups
      2. He does this so that one group might survive (he is practical)
        • Additionally, he gives gifts to Esau
        • Interesting thing about the gifts. What had Jacob stole from Esau and what was he giving him now?
      3. He prays (verse 9-12)

    Gen 32:9-12 (ESV) And Jacob said, "O God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, O Lord who said to me, 'Return to your country and to your kindred, that I may do you good,' 10  I am not worthy of the least of all the deeds of steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you have shown to your servant, for with only my staff I crossed this Jordan, and now I have become two camps. 11 Please deliver me from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau, for I fear him, that he may come and attack me, the mothers with the children. 12 But you said, 'I will surely do you good, and make your offspring as the sand of the sea, which cannot be numbered for multitude.'"

    • Jacob had prayed once before, how does his previous prayer and this prayer compare
      • First prayer or vow:  arrogant, me-centered, conditional on God's carrying out His promise (Gen 28:20-22)
      • Second prayer: humble, others-centered, relies on God's promises (Gen 32:9-12)
    • APPLICATION: 
      • It is okay and good to take action to solve a problem, but it also requires prayer
      • The last 20 years have changed Jacob. It took a while but he is different because of what God has been doing

    Genesis 32:13–21 (ESV) —
    13 So he stayed there that night, and from what he had with him he took a present for his brother Esau, 14 two hundred female goats and twenty male goats, two hundred ewes and twenty rams, 15 thirty milking camels and their calves, forty cows and ten bulls, twenty female donkeys and ten male donkeys. 16 These he handed over to his servants, every drove by itself, and said to his servants, “Pass on ahead of me and put a space between drove and drove.” 17 He instructed the first, “When Esau my brother meets you and asks you, ‘To whom do you belong? Where are you going? And whose are these ahead of you?’ 18 then you shall say, ‘They belong to your servant Jacob. They are a present sent to my lord Esau. And moreover, he is behind us.’ ” 19 He likewise instructed the second and the third and all who followed the droves, “You shall say the same thing to Esau when you find him, 20 and you shall say, ‘Moreover, your servant Jacob is behind us.’ ” For he thought, “I may appease him with the present that goes ahead of me, and afterward I shall see his face. Perhaps he will accept me.” 21 So the present passed on ahead of him, and he himself stayed that night in the camp.

    • As you observe this passage, what do you see?
      • Jacob is sending a lot
      • Jacob seems to be bribing him (but maybe Jacob realizes his deception)
      • Jacob is being prudent and prayerful

    Gen 32:22-32 (ESV) The same night he arose and took his two wives, his two female servants, and his eleven children, and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. 23 He took them and sent them across the stream, and everything else that he had. 24 And Jacob was left alone. And a man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day. 25 When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he touched his hip socket, and Jacob's hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26 Then he said, "Let me go, for the day has broken." But Jacob said, "I will not let you go unless you bless me." 27 And he said to him, "What is your name?" And he said, "Jacob." 28 Then he said, "Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with men, and have prevailed." 29 Then Jacob asked him, "Please tell me your name." But he said, "Why is it that you ask my name?" And there he blessed him. 30 So Jacob called the name of the place Peniel, saying, "For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life has been delivered." 31 The sun rose upon him as he passed Penuel, limping because of his hip. 32 Therefore to this day the people of Israel do not eat the sinew of the thigh that is on the hip socket, because he touched the socket of Jacob's hip on the sinew of the thigh.
    a Israel means he struggles with God.
    b Peniel means face of God.
    c Hebrew Penuel, a variant of Peniel

    • This is a very strange story and much of the detail is left out by God as he relates the story to Moses.  Consequently, some things are just not important to know
    • First, of all, what is Jacob's circumstance as night falls
      • He is alone
      • He is distressed
      • He begins wresting with a man
    • Who is the man?
      • It is God (verse 30)
    • What is the point of the wrestling all night until daybreak?
      • Jacob saw his life as wrestling with men (vs 28)
      • Jacob really had been wrestling with God all his life (vs 28)
      • Jacob wanted material blessings through deceit, now Jacob wanted God's blessing
    • Why would Jacob not let go (meaning of the word prevail in this case, Jacob would not release God)?
      • Because now he wanted God's blessing and he would settle for nothing less.  He was tired of his way of seeking blessing
    • The Israelites believed that if you knew a person or thing's name, you could exercise control
      • God does not provide his name, because God is telling Jacob that he (Jacob) cannot control God
        • "One wonders if 'Why is it that you inquire about my name?' [v. 29] is another way of asking, 'Jacob, don't you realize who I am?'" (Hamilton)
      • God does exercise control over Jacob, to the point that God renames Jacob
        • No longer, deceiver or trickster -- his original name, but now Israel, the man who struggles with God or God's warrior
        • NOTE: When was the last time someone asked Jacob his name? The last time someone asked Jacob his name, he lied (and said he was Esau)
    • God gives Jacob a new name and what else? Why?
      • Jacob has a limp (it literally changed his walk … this is what any encounter with God should do to us spiritually)
      • Reminder of the struggle and who he was really struggling with all those years
        • He was never struggling with Laban
        • Jacob has always been struggling with God
    • APPL:  Who are we struggling with?  Sometimes it is easy to think it is a neighbor or coworker or boss, but maybe it is God, because we don't want to learn the lesson that God is trying to teach us?

    Gen 33:1-4 (ESV) And Jacob lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, Esau was coming, and four hundred men with him. So he divided the children among Leah and Rachel and the two female servants. 2 And he put the servants with their children in front, then Leah with her children, and Rachel and Joseph last of all. 3 He himself went on before them, bowing himself to the ground seven times, until he came near to his brother.
     

    4  But Esau ran to meet him and embraced him and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they wept.

    • What had God promised Jacob?
      • That he would protect him
    • What had God been doing since Jacob left (in Esau)?
      • Changing Esau's heart (remember Gen 27:41)
      • It is quite possible that Esau might have been a very bitter and angry man, but Esau had changed too.  The story of Esau's life is probably a good story as well, but it is not part of the story of God's salvation
      • Gen 33: 9, 11 -- both men say that they "have enough" -- both men were content
    • APPL: Each of us has a story.  And none of our stories are complete, no matter how old we are.  If we are willing to walk with God, he can still do tremendous things in our life.
      • My nickname in the ministry was "man of war."  It was not because of my hobby, wargames, but because of my interpersonal approach to people and their spiritual walk.  If you didn't have your bible study done or your verse memorized, I sent you to another room to work on it.  I was knowledgeable, but my life didn't reflect God's kindness

    Gen 33:5-11 (ESV) And when Esau lifted up his eyes and saw the women and children, he said, "Who are these with you?" Jacob said, "The children whom God has graciously given your servant." 6 Then the servants drew near, they and their children, and bowed down. 7 Leah likewise and her children drew near and bowed down. And last Joseph and Rachel drew near, and they bowed down. 8 Esau said, "What do you mean by all this company that I met?" Jacob answered, "To find favor in the sight of my lord." 9 But Esau said, "I have enough, my brother; keep what you have for yourself." 10 Jacob said, "No, please, if I have found favor in your sight, then accept my present from my hand. For I have seen your face, which is like seeing the face of God, and you have accepted me. 11 Please accept my blessing that is brought to you, because God has dealt graciously with me, and because I have enough." Thus he urged him, and he took it.

    • Jacob's vocabulary has changed.  What do you see?
      • ESV: "God has gracious given (vs 5)" … "God has dealt graciously with me (vs 11)"
      • What is Jacob saying?
        • I don't deserve it
        • I didn't earn it
        • For some reason, God was good to me
    • APPL:  The word "graciousness" became part of my vocabulary after Luke's birth and his sufferings.  I began to see God's hand and his work in my life and my family from the perspective of his graciousness.  It still brings tears to my eyes today as I think of what God has graciously done in my life
      • What is God doing in our lives?
      • What are we wrestling with and need to hand over to Him?
      • We need to learn how to receive things from others for the other's benefit
    • There is a principle in Proverbs which is useful here. Remember, Proverbs are not promises but general truths (otherwise we would all be using bribes)
      • Proverbs 16:7 (ESV) — 7 When a man’s ways please the Lord, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.

    Genesis 33:12–17 (ESV) — 12 Then Esau said, “Let us journey on our way, and I will go ahead of you.” 13 But Jacob said to him, “My lord knows that the children are frail, and that the nursing flocks and herds are a care to me. If they are driven hard for one day, all the flocks will die. 14 Let my lord pass on ahead of his servant, and I will lead on slowly, at the pace of the livestock that are ahead of me and at the pace of the children, until I come to my lord in Seir.”

    15 So Esau said, “Let me leave with you some of the people who are with me.” But he said, “What need is there? Let me find favor in the sight of my lord.” 16 So Esau returned that day on his way to Seir. 17 But Jacob journeyed to Succoth, and built himself a house and made booths for his livestock. Therefore the name of the place is called Succoth.

    • A number of things here and I want to be careful to not read too much into the statements, especially when scripture does not comment on it
    • Observations:
      • At this point in the text, the name Jacob is being used more than Israel
        • We are not sure what that means
      • We don't know that Jacob's statement means he was going directly to Seir
        • We don't know if he changed his mind, the trip had been a very long trip at fast speeds (when fleeing Laban). They really might have been exhausted and decided to rest instead
        • As far as we know, Jacob never makes it to Seir
      • One thing that does seem to become a pattern from this point onward is that Jacob does not like to make decisions
        • Maybe he was trusting in God
        • Maybe he was still paralyzed with fear
        • Maybe he felt the need to fulfill the command God had given him
    • This is the first mention of Succoth. It means booths.
      • While the name is the same as the name for the feast of booths, it is not related
      • The feast of booths commemorates Israel's Exodus from Egypt and living in booths, the first place being Succoth after Ramses. It is a different Succoth
      • Technically, it wouldn't fit anyway since Jacob made himself a house and only booths for the animals
      • The feast requires the people to live in the booths

    Genesis 33:18–20 (ESV) — 18 And Jacob came safely to the city of Shechem, which is in the land of Canaan, on his way from Paddan-aram, and he camped before the city. 19 And from the sons of Hamor, Shechem’s father, he bought for a hundred pieces of money the piece of land on which he had pitched his tent. 20 There he erected an altar and called it El-Elohe-Israel.

    • So, previously Abraham had expressed what when he bought a field to bury his dead?
      • He declared that the promised land was now the home of his family
      • Joseph would be brought back and buried here
    • Hamor's name means he-ass
    • Jacob fulfills his promise (partly) by building an altar at Shechem
      • The name of the altar is the first use by Jacob of his new name, Israel, calling the place the Mighty God of Israel

Genesis 29-31


    Review:
    2236
    Birth of Terah
    Gen 11:24
    2166
    Birth of Abram
    Gen 11:27
    2091
    Abram departs from Haran
    Gen 12:4
    2066
    Birth of lsaac
    Gen 21:2; cf.21:5
    2006
    Birth of Jacob and Esau
    Gen. 25:26
    1966
    Marriage of Esau
    Gen 26:34
    1930
    Jacob journeys to Haran (after 1966 but not sure how much; Isaac' eyes are very bad)
    Gen 28:2
    1916
    End of Jacob's 14 year labor for his wives
    Gen 29:30
    1916
    Birth of Joseph
    Gen 30:23
    1910
    End of Jacob's stay with Laban
    Gen 31:41
    1886
    Death of lsaac
    Gen 35:28

    Genesis 29:1–12 (ESV) —
    1 Then Jacob went on his journey and came to the land of the people of the east. 2 As he looked, he saw a well in the field, and behold, three flocks of sheep lying beside it, for out of that well the flocks were watered. The stone on the well’s mouth was large, 3 and when all the flocks were gathered there, the shepherds would roll the stone from the mouth of the well and water the sheep, and put the stone back in its place over the mouth of the well.
    4 Jacob said to them, “My brothers, where do you come from?” They said, “We are from Haran.” 5 He said to them, “Do you know Laban the son of Nahor?” They said, “We know him.” 6 He said to them, “Is it well with him?” They said, “It is well; and see, Rachel his daughter is coming with the sheep!” 7 He said, “Behold, it is still high day; it is not time for the livestock to be gathered together. Water the sheep and go, pasture them.” 8 But they said, “We cannot until all the flocks are gathered together and the stone is rolled from the mouth of the well; then we water the sheep.”
    9 While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her father’s sheep, for she was a shepherdess. 10 Now as soon as Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his mother’s brother, and the sheep of Laban his mother’s brother, Jacob came near and rolled the stone from the well’s mouth and watered the flock of Laban his mother’s brother. 11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and wept aloud. 12 And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father’s kinsman, and that he was Rebekah’s son, and she ran and told her father.

    • Where is Jacob? "We are not exactly sure"
      • Near Haran, but given the number of flocks of sheep, probably a ways out of the town
    • Why do the shepherds not open the cistern? "We don't know, but we can observe and speculate a little"
      • They were waiting for a sufficient number
      • Speculation is that Laban owned the cistern, but at this point it is not clear that he is rich in any way (see Gen 30:30)
      • Interestingly, Rachel is the shepherdess. Leah is the oldest and probably was excused. Also, for Laban's great wealth, the daughters don't get much of a break
      • Jacob, defies the convention and possible creates tension by opening the cistern  himself
        • Jacob is not known for being strong, that was Esau
        • Jacob is certainly not stronger than three men
    • Again, we don't want to read into scripture (Eisegesis), but what vibes do we pick up from the Shepherds regarding Laban?
      • "We know him" -- nothing good is said
      • They were a lot more excited about Rachel coming with the sheep

    Gen 29:13-30 (ESV) As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his sister's son, he ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him and brought him to his house. Jacob told Laban all these things, 14 and Laban said to him, "Surely you are my bone and my flesh!" And he stayed with him a month.

    15 Then Laban said to Jacob, "Because you are my kinsman, should you therefore serve me for nothing? Tell me, what shall your wages be?" 16 Now Laban had two daughters. The name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17 Leah's eyes were weak, but Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance. 18 Jacob loved Rachel. And he said, "I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel." 19 Laban said, "It is better that I give her to you than that I should give her to any other man; stay with me." 20 So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.

    21 Then Jacob said to Laban, "Give me my wife that I may go in to her, for my time is completed." 22 So Laban gathered together all the people of the place and made a feast. 23 But in the evening he took his daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and he went in to her. 24 (Laban gave  his female servant Zilpah to his daughter Leah to be her servant.) 25 And in the morning, behold, it was Leah! And Jacob said to Laban, "What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?" 26 Laban said, "It is not so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn. 27  Complete the week of this one, and we will give you the other also in return for serving me another seven years." 28 Jacob did so, and completed her week. Then Laban gave him his daughter Rachel to be his wife. 29 (Laban gave his female servant Bilhah to his daughter Rachel to be her servant.) 30 So Jacob went in to Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than Leah, and served Laban for another seven years.

    • Is there anything about Laban's initial response to Jacob that is familiar?
      • Gen 24:29-31 Laban reacts similarly after seeing the servant's gifts to Rebekah
    • Verse 15 would seem to be a positive statement, but the thing about con men is that the best con is when it appears to be the other person's idea.  Who suggests seven years for Rachel?
      • Jacob suggests seven years, which is a very good offer (maybe he was afraid of being turned down)
      • Leah would have entered the tent at night with her face veiled, although the feast was probably for Rachel
    • What is ironic about what Laban (and Leah) do to Jacob?
      • Leah pretended to be Rachel, just as Jacob had pretended to be Esau (both also depended on conditions of poor eyesight)
      • Leah had to agree to the deceit
      • Jacob gets what he deserved for his similar deception of Esau
    • When does Jacob marry Rachel?
      • On the eighth day, but he works an additional 7 years
    • APPL: God does not sin but he uses other's sin to teach lessons. Jacob now knows what it feels like to be on the wrong end of a scheme. God uses it to discipline and teach him. God could have intervened, but he chose not

    Gen 29:31-35 (ESV) When the Lord saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb, but Rachel was barren. 32 And Leah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Reuben, for she said, "Because the Lord has looked upon my affliction; for now my husband will love me." 33 She conceived again and bore a son, and said, "Because the Lord has heard that I am hated, he has given me this son also." And she called his name Simeon.  34 Again she conceived and bore a son, and said, "Now this time my husband will be attached to me, because I have borne him three sons." Therefore his name was called Levi.  35 And she conceived again and bore a son, and said, "This time I will praise the Lord." Therefore she called his name Judah. Then she ceased bearing.
    a Reuben sounds like the Hebrew for he has seen my misery; the name means see, a son.
    b Simeon probably means one who hears.
    c Levi sounds like and may be derived from the Hebrew for attached.
    d Judah sounds like and may be derived from the Hebrew for praise.

    • What is sad about this story?
      • Her father sold her for seven years of labor deceptively (one questions Laban's love)
      • Jacob does not love her, but instead he loves Rachel
      • Leah wants to be loved by someone (she thinks that raising children will bring her love)
        • It is not until the fourth child that she realizes that only God can love her the way she so desperately desires
        • She will struggle with this issue some more, but she is learning and growing
    • APPL: Our spouse cannot provide the happiness we all so deeply desire.  Only God can fill the emptiness of our soul. You cannot find happiness in a person
    • NOTE: God is fulfilling the unconditional promise he made to Jacob at Bethel to bless him (seed portion)

    Genesis 30:1–24 (ESV) —
    1 When Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children, she envied her sister. She said to Jacob, “Give me children, or I shall die!” 2 Jacob’s anger was kindled against Rachel, and he said, “Am I in the place of God, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?” 3 Then she said, “Here is my servant Bilhah; go in to her, so that she may give birth on my behalf, that even I may have children through her.” 4 So she gave him her servant Bilhah as a wife, and Jacob went in to her. 5 And Bilhah conceived and bore Jacob a son. 6 Then Rachel said, “God has judged me, and has also heard my voice and given me a son.” Therefore she called his name Dan. 7 Rachel’s servant Bilhah conceived again and bore Jacob a second son. 8 Then Rachel said, “With mighty wrestlings I have wrestled with my sister and have prevailed.” So she called his name Naphtali.
    9 When Leah saw that she had ceased bearing children, she took her servant Zilpah and gave her to Jacob as a wife. 10 Then Leah’s servant Zilpah bore Jacob a son. 11 And Leah said, “Good fortune has come!” so she called his name Gad. 12 Leah’s servant Zilpah bore Jacob a second son. 13 And Leah said, “Happy am I! For women have called me happy.” So she called his name Asher.
    14 In the days of wheat harvest Reuben went and found mandrakes in the field and brought them to his mother Leah. Then Rachel said to Leah, “Please give me some of your son’s mandrakes.” 15 But she said to her, “Is it a small matter that you have taken away my husband? Would you take away my son’s mandrakes also?” Rachel said, “Then he may lie with you tonight in exchange for your son’s mandrakes.” 16 When Jacob came from the field in the evening, Leah went out to meet him and said, “You must come in to me, for I have hired you with my son’s mandrakes.” So he lay with her that night. 17 And God listened to Leah, and she conceived and bore Jacob a fifth son. 18 Leah said, “God has given me my wages because I gave my servant to my husband.” So she called his name Issachar.
    19 And Leah conceived again, and she bore Jacob a sixth son. 20 Then Leah said, “God has endowed me with a good endowment; now my husband will honor me, because I have borne him six sons.” So she called his name Zebulun. 21 Afterward she bore a daughter and called her name Dinah.
    22 Then God remembered Rachel, and God listened to her and opened her womb. 23 She conceived and bore a son and said, “God has taken away my reproach.” 24 And she called his name Joseph, saying, “May the Lord add to me another son!”

    • At this point in the story, we have passed fourteen years. What do we have?
      • Leah has seven children, six sons and a daughter
      • Rachel's servant Bilhah has two sons
      • Leah's servant Zilpah has two sons
      • Rachel has one son
      • Summary: Twelve children, eleven sons and one daughter
    • Another ironic event occurs with the mandrakes, do you see it?
      • Jacob purchased his birthright with stew
      • Leah purchases the right for more children with mandrakes

    MANDRAKES (Heb. dudâim) are mentioned in Gen. 30:14, 15, 16, and in Song. 7:13. The mandrake, Atropa mandragora, is closely allied to the well-known deadly nightshade, A. belladonna, and to the tomato, and belongs to the order Solanaceæ, or potato family. It grows in Palestine and Mesopotamia. (It grows low, like lettuce, which its leaves somewhat resemble, except that they are of a dark green. The flowers are purple, and the root is usually forked. Its fruit when ripe (early in May) is about the size of a small apple, 2½ inches in diameter, ruddy or yellow, and of a most agreeable odor (to Orientals more than to Europeans) and an equally agreeable taste. The Arabs call it “devil’s apple,” from its power to excite voluptuousness. Dr. Richardson (“Lectures on Alcohol,” 1881) tried some experiments with wine made of the root of mandrake, and found it narcotic, causing sleep, so that the ancients used it as an anæsthetic. Used in small quantities like opium, it excites the nerves, and is a stimulant.—ED.)
    (Smith, W. (1986). In Smith’s Bible Dictionary. Nashville: Thomas Nelson.)

    • How would you describe this passage?
      • Family personal conflict between two grown siblings both competing for the love of the Husband (and maybe even the love of their Father)
    • These initial fourteen years (which should have been seven) have not been easy. At the end of it, what does Jacob have?
      • Lots of children but no income to support his family

    Genesis 30:25–43 (ESV) —
    25 As soon as Rachel had borne Joseph, Jacob said to Laban, “Send me away, that I may go to my own home and country. 26 Give me my wives and my children for whom I have served you, that I may go, for you know the service that I have given you.” 27 But Laban said to him, “If I have found favor in your sight, I have learned by divination that the Lord has blessed me because of you. 28 Name your wages, and I will give it.” 29 Jacob said to him, “You yourself know how I have served you, and how your livestock has fared with me. 30 For you had little before I came, and it has increased abundantly, and the Lord has blessed you wherever I turned. But now when shall I provide for my own household also?” 31 He said, “What shall I give you?” Jacob said, “You shall not give me anything. If you will do this for me, I will again pasture your flock and keep it: 32 let me pass through all your flock today, removing from it every speckled and spotted sheep and every black lamb, and the spotted and speckled among the goats, and they shall be my wages. 33 So my honesty will answer for me later, when you come to look into my wages with you. Every one that is not speckled and spotted among the goats and black among the lambs, if found with me, shall be counted stolen.” 34 Laban said, “Good! Let it be as you have said.” 35 But that day Laban removed the male goats that were striped and spotted, and all the female goats that were speckled and spotted, every one that had white on it, and every lamb that was black, and put them in the charge of his sons. 36 And he set a distance of three days’ journey between himself and Jacob, and Jacob pastured the rest of Laban’s flock.
    37 Then Jacob took fresh sticks of poplar and almond and plane trees, and peeled white streaks in them, exposing the white of the sticks. 38 He set the sticks that he had peeled in front of the flocks in the troughs, that is, the watering places, where the flocks came to drink. And since they bred when they came to drink, 39 the flocks bred in front of the sticks and so the flocks brought forth striped, speckled, and spotted. 40 And Jacob separated the lambs and set the faces of the flocks toward the striped and all the black in the flock of Laban. He put his own droves apart and did not put them with Laban’s flock. 41 Whenever the stronger of the flock were breeding, Jacob would lay the sticks in the troughs before the eyes of the flock, that they might breed among the sticks, 42 but for the feebler of the flock he would not lay them there. So the feebler would be Laban’s, and the stronger Jacob’s. 43 Thus the man increased greatly and had large flocks, female servants and male servants, and camels and donkeys.

    • There is a lot of negotiating going here
      1. Jacob proposes leaving
      2. Laban acknowledges Jacob's impact and (whose name means "white) proposes Jacob work for Laban
        • There some wordplay on the use of the word "white")
      3. Jacob agrees with his assessment. Jacob asks for all the rare sheep and goats
      4. Laban agrees and then immediately removes all the rare sheep and goats, giving them to his sons and keeping them 3 days apart
    • The wives practiced "bickering, superstition, deceit, and disobedience" (Constable), but God blessed Jacob anyway
    • Now we see Jacob acting similarly. What Jacob did is impossible to have an effect on the animals, but God blessed Jacob anyway
      • Now Jacob did accomplish one thing by selective breeding but it would have made no difference in getting a rare coloring
    • God fulfills his promise to Jacob

    Gen 31:1-16 (ESV) Now Jacob heard that the sons of Laban were saying, "Jacob has taken all that was our father's, and from what was our father's he has gained all this wealth." 2 And Jacob saw that Laban did not regard him with favor as before. 3 Then the Lord said to Jacob, "Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred, and I will be with you."

    4 So Jacob sent and called Rachel and Leah into the field where his flock was 5 and said to them, "I see that your father does not regard me with favor as he did before. But the God of my father has been with me. 6  You know that I have served your father with all my strength, 7 yet your father has cheated me and changed my wages ten times. But God did not permit him to harm me. 8 If he said, 'The spotted shall be your wages,' then all the flock bore spotted; and if he said, 'The striped shall be your wages,' then all the flock bore striped. 9 Thus God has taken away the livestock of your father and given them to me. 10 In the breeding season of the flock I lifted up my eyes and saw in a dream that the goats that mated with the flock were striped, spotted, and mottled. 11 Then the angel of God said to me in the dream, 'Jacob,' and I said, 'Here I am!' 12 And he said, 'Lift up your eyes and see, all the goats that mate with the flock are striped, spotted, and mottled, for I have seen all that Laban is doing to you. 13 I am the God of Bethel, where you anointed a pillar and made a vow to me. Now arise, go out from this land and return to the land of your kindred.'" 14 Then Rachel and Leah answered and said to him, "Is there any portion or inheritance left to us in our father's house? 15 Are we not regarded by him as foreigners? For he has sold us, and he has indeed devoured our money. 16 All the wealth that God has taken away from our father belongs to us and to our children. Now then, whatever God has said to you, do."

    • What has been Jacob's experience in the last 20 years (6 as a wage earner)?
      • Cheated
      • Changed wages ten times
    • What has God done
      • God has fulfilled his second promise (to bless him)
      • God has been with him and has protected him from Laban's deception
      • God reminds him of his vow (even though the prayer was terrible)
      • God tells him to go back to the land (last part of the promise)
    • APPL: It doesn't really matter when someone cheats us.  God sees it and God will deal with it.  Likewise, we must not cheat anyone because God will deal with us
    • Incidentally, what does God suggest of Jacob's technique of mating animals?
      • He ignores the technique and tells Jacob that he provided the animals
      • Jacob seems to be recognizing that it was God who slowly took away all of Laban's flocks
      • They all realize that God has taken away Laban's wealth and given it to Jacob
      • The wives also make a startling revelation -- he has sold us
    • APPL: We may think that our own abilities has made our fortune, be we need to acknowledge that it is God who gives material blessing and who takes it away as He thinks best
    • APPL: The last thing is that Jacob is emerging as a man of faith.  He takes the spiritual lead of his family in the departure from Haran

    Genesis 31:17–35 (ESV) —
    17 So Jacob arose and set his sons and his wives on camels. 18 He drove away all his livestock, all his property that he had gained, the livestock in his possession that he had acquired in Paddan-aram, to go to the land of Canaan to his father Isaac. 19 Laban had gone to shear his sheep, and Rachel stole her father’s household gods. 20 And Jacob tricked Laban the Aramean, by not telling him that he intended to flee. 21 He fled with all that he had and arose and crossed the Euphrates, and set his face toward the hill country of Gilead.
    22 When it was told Laban on the third day that Jacob had fled, 23 he took his kinsmen with him and pursued him for seven days and followed close after him into the hill country of Gilead. 24 But God came to Laban the Aramean in a dream by night and said to him, “Be careful not to say anything to Jacob, either good or bad.”
    25 And Laban overtook Jacob. Now Jacob had pitched his tent in the hill country, and Laban with his kinsmen pitched tents in the hill country of Gilead. 26 And Laban said to Jacob, “What have you done, that you have tricked me and driven away my daughters like captives of the sword? 27 Why did you flee secretly and trick me, and did not tell me, so that I might have sent you away with mirth and songs, with tambourine and lyre? 28 And why did you not permit me to kiss my sons and my daughters farewell? Now you have done foolishly. 29 It is in my power to do you harm. But the God of your father spoke to me last night, saying, ‘Be careful not to say anything to Jacob, either good or bad.’ 30 And now you have gone away because you longed greatly for your father’s house, but why did you steal my gods?” 31 Jacob answered and said to Laban, “Because I was afraid, for I thought that you would take your daughters from me by force. 32 Anyone with whom you find your gods shall not live. In the presence of our kinsmen point out what I have that is yours, and take it.” Now Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen them.
    33 So Laban went into Jacob’s tent and into Leah’s tent and into the tent of the two female servants, but he did not find them. And he went out of Leah’s tent and entered Rachel’s. 34 Now Rachel had taken the household gods and put them in the camel’s saddle and sat on them. Laban felt all about the tent, but did not find them. 35 And she said to her father, “Let not my lord be angry that I cannot rise before you, for the way of women is upon me.” So he searched but did not find the household gods.

    • Things come to a head in this chapter. Jacob attempts one more trick. What is it and did it work?
      • He tried to get away so that Laban could not catch him (vs 20)
      • Laban caught up with him (vs 25)
      • The word "trick" comes up three times (20,26,27)
      • Key point: Jacob's tricks really don't work
    • Why the discussion about the gods of Laban?
      • It gives us some insight into the faulty thinking of the time
      • Even believers in the one true God seem to hold on to idolatrous ideas
        • That is still true today (share example of creating God in our own image)
      • It also give Laban some initial leverage
    • Laban does have at least one good argument, although it is really hard to say if it is real, what is it?
      • Verse 27-28. There were his children and grand-children, and he felt they were stolen out from under him
    • The most interesting part of the story is the next part
      • God spoke to Laban
      • God protected Jacob (again)
    • The search for the gods also brings up some interesting observations
      • Jacob essentially condemns his wife to death for her sin
      • Rachel defiles the gods by her actions (although I think it was unintentional and only to hide her sin)
      • These gods were superstitiously believed to protect one's household and land, and now Laban no longer has them

    Gen 31:36-44 (ESV) Then Jacob became angry and berated Laban. Jacob said to Laban, "What is my offense? What is my sin, that you have hotly pursued me? 37 For you have felt through all my goods; what have you found of all your household goods? Set it here before my kinsmen and your kinsmen, that they may decide between us two. 38 These twenty years I have been with you. Your ewes and your female goats have not miscarried, and I have not eaten the rams of your flocks. 39 What was torn by wild beasts I did not bring to you. I bore the loss of it myself. From my hand you required it, whether stolen by day or stolen by night. 40 There I was: by day the heat consumed me, and the cold by night, and my sleep fled from my eyes. 41 These twenty years I have been in your house. I served you fourteen years for your two daughters, and six years for your flock, and you have changed my wages ten times. 42  If the God of my father, the God of Abraham and the Fear of Isaac, had not been on my side, surely now you would have sent me away empty-handed. God saw my affliction and the labor of my hands and rebuked you last night."

    43 Then Laban answered and said to Jacob, "The daughters are my daughters, the children are my children, the flocks are my flocks, and all that you see is mine. But what can I do this day for these my daughters or for their children whom they have borne? 44 Come now, let us make a covenant, you and I. And let it be a witness between you and me."

    • Jacob now takes the offensive. Both men had an eruption of bitterness
      • Sin does that especially when deceit is practices
    • How does Jacob describe the last 20 years?
      • Very painful (lack of sleep, bore loss [not the shepherd's responsibility], heat & cold, changed wages) -- life has been hard
      • God is in control
        • Ps 71:20-21 (NIV) Though you have made me see troubles, many and bitter,
    you will restore my life again;
    from the depths of the earth
    you will again bring me up.
    21 You will increase my honor
    and comfort me once again.
    • Lam 3:19-23 (NIV) I remember my affliction and my wandering,
    the bitterness and the gall.
    20 I well remember them,
    and my soul is downcast within me.
    21 Yet this I call to mind
    and therefore I have hope:
    22 Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed,
    for his compassions never fail.
    23 They are new every morning;
    great is your faithfulness.
    • Lam 3:38 (NIV) Is it not from the mouth of the Most High
    that both calamities and good things come? 
    • APPL: Circumstances of life are not a good measure of God's control.  Faith believes that God is in control despite all the evidence against it.  Someday, we will see God's hand
    • It is hard to read to understand Laban's last statement. I choose to read it as a surrender to God. He too learned a lesson during these 20 years
      • What Laban says finally is both incorrect and to a degree correct
      • They were his children
      • It used to be his wealth (although Jacob created it)
      • Everything he had was torn away from him (it is a very sad ending)
    • The parity covenant has two purposes
      • One, Laban could have been afraid of his remaining household since he lost his gods
      • Two, it was an attempt to heal some very deep wounds

    Genesis 31:45–55 (ESV) —
    45 So Jacob took a stone and set it up as a pillar. 46 And Jacob said to his kinsmen, “Gather stones.” And they took stones and made a heap, and they ate there by the heap. 47 Laban called it Jegar-sahadutha, but Jacob called it Galeed. 48 Laban said, “This heap is a witness between you and me today.” Therefore he named it Galeed, 49 and Mizpah, for he said, “The Lord watch between you and me, when we are out of one another’s sight. 50 If you oppress my daughters, or if you take wives besides my daughters, although no one is with us, see, God is witness between you and me.”
    51 Then Laban said to Jacob, “See this heap and the pillar, which I have set between you and me. 52 This heap is a witness, and the pillar is a witness, that I will not pass over this heap to you, and you will not pass over this heap and this pillar to me, to do harm. 53 The God of Abraham and the God of Nahor, the God of their father, judge between us.” So Jacob swore by the Fear of his father Isaac, 54 and Jacob offered a sacrifice in the hill country and called his kinsmen to eat bread. They ate bread and spent the night in the hill country.
    55 Early in the morning Laban arose and kissed his grandchildren and his daughters and blessed them. Then Laban departed and returned home.

    • Some commentators feel the loss of Laban's household gods caused Laban to protect himself against Jacob
    • It is a parity covenant
    • The fascinating thing is it also represents a border for the land of Dan
      • While God promised the land to the Euphrates (later?), the original land only went this far
      • It is where Laban caught up with Jacob
      • It is where their stone pillar, their mizpah is set up
    • The scene ends on a very happy note
      • Laban kisses his grandchildren
      • Laban kisses his daughters
      • Laban blesses them